People make the mistake of thinking being gay equates to sex. They think it means having the liberty to get freaky and have unprotected sex with whoever you want all the time. Wrong!  That’s called irresponsible and you don’t have to be gay to sleep around.  They don’t realize we are people in relationships just like anyone else. I have several friends (lesbian and gay) that have been with their partners 15-30+ years. They raised kids together, own property together, had ups and downs together. Gay does not JUST mean sex. It means meaningful relationships for the same reason straight folks marry their partners. Sex is part of any type of relationship.  So please stop your shallow way of thinking. Anyone can have freaky sex, you don’t have to be gay.